Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Over the last months.....

       Over the last few months I have been going on a journey. It basically has been a journey of a read awakening. Having had the opportunity to read through the biographies and conference talks of many of the apostles through this course I have come to a new sense or understanding of the reality of the gospel on the plan of salvation. While compiling our quotes we were supposed to identify one topic and apply that gospel principle or at you in our lives. I did not select one topic or do that assignment like it should have been done. But over the last few months I have learned and been reminded of the truthfulness of the Gospel and the reality of our time here on earth. Time is short. We have a lot to do a lot to become. God has given us as gospel to help us on our path through this earth life. As I have been reminded of these simple truths, I have strived more diligently to keep the commandments with more exactness, to let obedience become a part of me and not a separate verb. I am grateful for the blessings that have come into my life and doing so. God is truly a wonderful God and knows what we need and when we need in our lives. The last three months I have needed to be more obedient. He has help me to see this and has helped me to slowly apply it more in my life. I'm grateful for a kind and patient heavenly father. I know that obedience is one of the first and most important principles we need to grasp in order to become like our heavenly father. Obedience brings power and the blessings of heaven into our lives. I have kind of started to see obedience as the keys that unlock our potential. As we strive to be obedient and make the small simple changes in our lives God blesses us and truly the windows of heaven are open and poured out upon us. I feel like a few snowballs come down with the blessings from heaven but they're there for a reason and if we learn from them we will become better.
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Atonement

        The following quotes are about he Atonment of our Savior Jesus Christ. Even after reading through these quotes and compiling them, the Atonment still has so much for me to learn about it. I know this much, it is real. The savior truly felt all that we have and will feel. He has been emotionaly where we have been and will go. He can enable forgivness for our sins and free us from the natural man. We are able to expirience the joys and sorrows of life because he came and did what he said he would do in heaven. What an amazing son and brother Jesus Christ is. I am gratful for his sacrifice for me. 
I hope that as you read the following quotes on the atonment you will feel the spirit speak to your hear that the atonement is very real and can be alive in our lives. 

Jesus Christ continues to extend the call “Come and follow me.”5 He walked His homeland with His followers in a selfless manner. He continues to walk with us, stand by us, and lead us. To follow His perfect example is to recognize and honor the Savior, who has borne all of our burdens through His sacred and saving Atonement, the ultimate act of service. What He asks of each one of us is to be able and willing to take up the joyful “burden” of discipleship.

Elder Ronald A. Rasband
The Joyful Burden of Discipleship
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/the-joyful-burden-of-discipleship?lang=eng

In this life we laugh, we cry, we work, we play, we live, and then we die. Job asks the succinct question, “If a man die, shall he live again?”2 The answer is a resounding yes because of the atoning sacrifice of the Savior. Part of Job’s diverse preamble to the question is interesting: “Man that is born of a woman is of few days. … He cometh forth like a flower, and is cut down. … There is hope of a tree, if it be cut down, that it will sprout again, and that the tender branch thereof will not cease … and bring forth boughs like a plant.”3

Elder Quentin L. Cook
Roots and Branches
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/roots-and-branches?lang=eng

Preach My Gospel teaches everyone not only how to invite but also how to follow up on our invitations. The purpose of missionary work is defined as inviting “others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the restored gospel through faith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end.”3

Elder M. Russel Ballard
Following Up
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/following-up?lang=eng


The Savior said:
“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28–30).
A yoke is a wooden beam, normally used between a pair of oxen or other animals that enables them to pull together on a load. A yoke places animals side-by-side so they can move together in order to accomplish a task.
Consider the Lord’s uniquely individual invitation to “take my yoke upon you.” Making and keeping sacred covenants yokes us to and with the Lord Jesus Christ. In essence, the Savior is beckoning us to rely upon and pull together with Him, even though our best efforts are not equal to and cannot be compared with His. As we trust in and pull our load with Him during the journey of mortality, truly His yoke is easy and His burden is light.
We are not and never need be alone. We can press forward in our daily lives with heavenly help. Through the Savior’s Atonement we can receive capacity and “strength beyond [our] own” (“Lord, I Would Follow Thee,” Hymns, no. 220). As the Lord declared, “Therefore, continue your journey and let your hearts rejoice; for behold, and lo, I am with you even unto the end” (D&C 100:12).

Elder David A. Bednar
Bear Up Their Burdens with Ease
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/bear-up-their-burdens-with-ease?lang=eng

These early Saints were indeed homeless, but they were not hopeless. Their hearts were broken, but their spirits were strong. They had learned a profound and important lesson. They had learned that hope, with its attendant blessings of peace and joy, does not depend upon circumstance. They had discovered that the true source of hope is faith--faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and in His infinite Atonement, the one sure foundation upon which to build our lives.

Wilford W. Anderson
The Rock of Our Redeemer
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/the-rock-of-our-redeemer?lang=eng


To understand the meaning of death, we must appreciate the purpose of life. The dim light of belief must yield to the noonday sun of revelation, by which we know that we lived before our birth into mortality. In our premortal state, we were doubtless among the sons and daughters of God who shouted for joy because of the opportunity to come to this challenging yet necessary mortal existence.5 We knew that our purpose was to gain a physical body, to overcome trials, and to prove that we would keep the commandments of God. Our Father knew that because of the nature of mortality, we would be tempted, would sin, and would fall short. So that we might have every chance of success, He provided a Savior, who would suffer and die for us. Not only would He atone for our sins, but as a part of that Atonement, He would also overcome the physical death to which we would be subject because of the Fall of Adam.

President Thomas S. Monson
He Is Risen!
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/he-is-risen?lang=eng

The Atonement of His Beloved Son enabled both of the Father’s objectives to be fulfilled. Without the Atonement, there would be no immortality. Without the Atonement, there would be no return to the presence of the Father and no continuation of the family beyond the grave.

Elder Russell M. Nelson
Generations Linked in Love
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/generations-linked-in-love?lang=eng

Second, when we are faced with trials, we must learn to not complain or murmur. Nephi, after a great vision of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice, told us: “Wherefore they scourge him, and he suffereth it; and they smite him, and he suffereth it. Yea, they spit upon him, and he suffereth it, because of his loving kindness and his long-suffering towards the children of men.”4 We must always attempt to correct the problem and overcome the trial, but instead of asking “Why me?” or “What did I do to deserve this?” maybe the question should be “What am I to do? What can I learn from this experience? What am I to change?”
James B. Martino
All Things Work Together for Good
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/all-things-work-together-for-good?lang=eng


At the time Joseph Smith received revelations and organized the Church, the vast majority of churches taught that the Savior’s Atonement would not bring about the salvation of most of mankind. The common precept was that a few would be saved and the overwhelming majority would be doomed to endless tortures of the most awful and unspeakable intensity.16 The marvelous doctrine revealed to the Prophet Joseph unveiled to us a plan of salvation that is applicable to all mankind, including those who do not hear of Christ in this life, children who die before the age of accountability, and those who have no understanding.17

Elder Quentin L. Cook
Our Father’s Plan—Big Enough for All His Children
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/04/our-fathers-plan-big-enough-for-all-his-children?lang=eng

Therefore, one of the most powerful and searching questions ever asked of all of us in our sufferings hangs in time and space before us: “The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?” (D&C 122:8.) Jesus plumbed the depths and scaled the heights in order to comprehend all things. (See D&C 88:6.) Jesus, therefore, is not only a fully atoning but He is also a fully comprehending Savior!
Jesus’ few dozen words describing the agonies of the Atonement reveal that He was determined that He “not drink the bitter cup, and shrink” (D&C 19:18) or pull back. Instead, submissive Christ reminded us that He both “partook” and “finished.” (See D&C 19:19.) Each act was so essential! No wonder Paul called Jesus the “finisher of our faith.” (Heb. 12:2.)


Elder Neal A. Maxwell
“Endure It Well”
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/04/endure-it-well?lang=eng
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Family, 1990 to Today

       Discovering these quotes on the family has been revieling to me of the state of the family sense April,1990. The directions to the church in the 1990s are very simular then as they are today. Happiness in family life is not always easy but as we apply the gosple teachings to our life style, we see the promised blessings come to pass. I have noticed that Family Home Evening is one of those small and simple commandments that I feel brings to much peace to our home. My wife and I work together more effortlessly when have our Family home evenings. Each of the quotes that follow were insightful to me as I studdied the topic of Families in the last 24 years of general conferene. 

Heavenly Father has made each of us unique. No two of us have exactly the same experiences. No two families are alike. So it is not surprising that advice about how to choose happiness in family life is hard to give. Yet a loving Heavenly Father has set the same path to happiness for all of His children. Whatever our personal characteristics or whatever will be our experiences, there is but one plan of happiness. That plan is to follow all the commandments of God.

Elder Henry B. Eyring
To My Grandchildren
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/to-my-grandchildren?lang=eng

Parents today wonder if there is a safe place to raise children. There is a safe place. It is in a gospel-centered home. We focus on the family in the Church, and we counsel parents everywhere to raise their children in righteousness.
President Boyd K. Packer
The Key to Spiritual Protection
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/the-key-to-spiritual-protection?lang=eng

The messages of this conference will also be woven into the online youth curriculum. Parents, you may access youth lessons for yourself on LDS.org. Find out what your children are learning, and make it the subject of your own study, family discussions, family home evenings, family councils, and personal interviews with each of your children concerning what they need to be taught individually.
Robert D. Hales
General Conference: Strengthening Faith and Testimony
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/general-conference-strengthening-faith-and-testimony?lang=eng

Today, evil forces are challenging the home as never before. If our homes are to endure, parents and children must dedicate themselves to the gospel ideals that ensure preservation of home and family.

Dr. Pearsall expresses the opinion that families aren’t failing, but we are failing the family because we have not learned how to put family life first in our world.

ELder Rex D. Pinegar
“Home First”
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/04/home-first?lang=eng

Although Father and Mother work hard, they should find time to keep informed on current events and to read good books, to discuss the Ensign, the New Era, and the Friend with each other and with their children. These magazines can add a wonderful dimension to our lives if we make them part of our homes and discuss them with our families. This is an ongoing challenge for all of us, but it is worth the effort.
The family should kneel together daily in family prayer. Alma 58:10 tells us: “Therefore we did pour out our souls in prayer to God, that he would strengthen us and deliver us out of the hands of our enemies, yea, and also give us strength that we might retain our cities, and our lands, and our possessions, for the support of our people.” Our family has always needed to be strengthened--and still does--and kneeling in prayer daily certainly helps. Children need to be constantly taught how they should act when they mature and have their own families.
Elder LeGrand R. Curtis
Happiness Is Homemade
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/10/happiness-is-homemade?lang=eng

Heavenly Father has assigned us to a great variety of stations to strengthen and, when needed, to lead travelers to safety. Our most important and powerful assignments are in the family. They are important because the family has the opportunity at the start of a child’s life to put feet firmly on the path home. Parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles are made more powerful guides and rescuers by the bonds of love that are the very nature of a family.
Henry B. Eyring 
Help Them on Their Way Home
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/help-them-on-their-way-home?lang=eng

Inviting children as gospel learners to act and not merely be acted upon builds on reading and talking about the Book of Mormon and bearing testimony spontaneously in the home. Imagine, for example, a family home evening in which children are invited and expected to come prepared to ask questions about what they are reading and learning in the Book of Mormon--or about an issue that recently was emphasized in a gospel discussion or spontaneous testimony in the home. And imagine further that the children ask questions the parents are not prepared adequately to answer. Some parents might be apprehensive about such an unstructured approach to home evening. But the best family home evenings are not necessarily the product of preprepared, purchased, or downloaded packets of outlines and visual aids. What a glorious opportunity for family members to search the scriptures together and to be tutored by the Holy Ghost. “For the preacher was no better than the hearer, neither was the teacher any better than the learner; … and they did all labor, every man according to his strength” (Alma 1:26).

David A. Bednar
Watching with All Perseverance
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/watching-with-all-perseverance?lang=eng

My brothers and sisters, what a wonderful occasion this is! I know of nothing else like it in all the world. We are gathered this morning as a great family in reverence and worship of the Lord our God. We are of one faith and one doctrine. We speak words of testimony concerning God our Eternal Father and His Beloved Son. We declare with conviction and certainty that they have restored in this last dispensation The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

President Gordon B. Hinkley
A Great Family in Reverence and Worship
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/a-great-family-in-reverence-and-worship?lang=eng

Every time we strengthen our own testimony or help someone else strengthen theirs, we build the kingdom of God. Every time we mentor a newly baptized sister or befriend a wandering soul without judging her or invite a nonmember family to home evening or give a Book of Mormon to a colleague or lead a family to the temple or stand up for modesty and motherhood or invite the missionaries into our homes or help someone discover the power of the word, we build the kingdom of God. Imagine how it lifted my sister’s spirits when she read this journal entry Tanner had made just before he died: “Thanks, Mom and Dad, for teaching me about Christ.” What builds the kingdom more than raising up a child to the Lord?
Sheri L. Dew
Stand Tall and Stand Together
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/stand-tall-and-stand-together?lang=eng

We can all ask ourselves the standard questions: Are we praying daily, personally and as a family? Are we reading the scriptures? Are we holding our family home evenings and paying our tithing? The list can go on. But the real question is: Are we becoming a disciple? Are we becoming a friend?
Elder Richard C. Edgly
A Disciple, a Friend
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1998/04/a-disciple-a-friend?lang=eng

You young women have an important role to play in at least three families. The first is the family you are part of now, the second is your future family, and the third is the heavenly family of which we are all part.

Margaret D. Nudauld
Turning Hearts to the Family
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1998/04/turning-hearts-to-the-family?lang=eng

Is yours a culture where the husband exerts a domineering, authoritarian role, making all of the important decisions for the family? That pattern needs to be tempered so that both husband and wife act as equal partners, making decisions in unity for themselves and their family. No family can long endure under fear or force; that leads to contention and rebellion. Love is the foundation of a happy family.
These are other traditions that should be set aside, any aspect of heritage:
That would violate the Word of Wisdom.
That is based on forcing others to comply by the power of station often determined by heredity.
That encourages the establishment of caste systems.
That breeds conflict with other cultures.

Elder Richard G. Scott
Removing Barriers to Happiness
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1998/04/removing-barriers-to-happiness?lang=eng

Family--what a sacred name for those we love the most. If someone asked you to name the greatest thing about your family, what would it be? I know that most families, including mine, are not perfect, but every day we are trying to be more kind and thoughtful to each other. This past month my father died. I learned many lessons from my dad. He had such great faith. He said, “Dying is just like walking into another room.” The day he died, I thought: My dad died today! This was his last day on earth! He has just walked into another room. It was such a sweet, sacred experience for my family and me.

Carol B. Thomas
Understanding Our True Identity
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1998/04/understanding-our-true-identity?lang=eng

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Agency

        I have compiled an exciting group of quotes about Agency for you. Agency is many things but simply put, it is the power to chose what we want. We can chose to wake up in the moring and make our selves a delightful egg sandwich if we would like. Or we can chose to sleep in. Satan wanted and still wants today to strip from us this gift. He originaly wanted to force us into choosing the right all the time. Now he wants the perfect opposite. He would have us to make every wrong choice we could. Lie, cheat, steal and use volgar language while we are doing all that. He chose to not follow our heavenly fathers plan for his children and ever sense has been in a tailspin of bad choices. What a sad demise. Thankfully we do have agency, we do have the power to change our future and shape it how we see fit. Who we are today is a sum total of the choices we have made throughout our lives. 
Now that you have read my thoughts, enjoy the pricise words in the quotes below. 


We know that we had our agency before this world was and that Lucifer attempted to take it from us. He had no confidence in the principle of agency or in us and argued for imposed salvation. He insisted that with his plan none would be lost, but he seemed not to recognize--or perhaps not to care--that in addition, none would be any wiser, any stronger, any more compassionate, or any more grateful if his plan were followed.

President Thomas S. Monson
The Three Rs of Choice
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/the-three-rs-of-choice?lang=eng


Recently I received a letter from a friend of over 50 years who is not a member of our church. I had sent him some gospel-related reading, to which he responded: “Initially it was hard for me to follow the meaning of typical Mormon jargon, such as agency. Possibly a short vocabulary page would be helpful.”

I was surprised he did not understand what we mean by the word agency. I went to an online dictionary. Of the 10 definitions and usages of the word agency, none expressed the idea of making choices to act. We teach that agency is the ability and privilege God gives us to choose and “to act for [ourselves] and not to be acted upon.”1 Agency is to act with accountability and responsibility for our actions. Our agency is essential to the plan of salvation. With it we are “free to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and death, according to the captivity and power of the devil.”2

Elder Robert D. Hales
Agency: Essential to the Plan of Life
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/agency-essential-to-the-plan-of-life?lang=eng


Staying on the gospel path of covenants, commandments, and ordinances protects us and prepares us to do God’s work in this world. When we obey the Word of Wisdom, our agency is protected from addictions to substances like alcohol, drugs, and tobacco. As we pay our tithing, study the scriptures, receive baptism and confirmation, live for the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost, partake of the sacrament worthily, obey the law of chastity, prepare for and receive the Melchizedek Priesthood, and make sacred covenants in the temple, then we are prepared to serve.

Elder Robert D. Hales
Stand Strong in Holy Places
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/stand-strong-in-holy-places?lang=eng


There is a wonderful lesson for us all. The way for loving parents and grandparents and all of God’s servants will not be easy in a decaying world. We cannot force God’s children to choose the way to happiness. God cannot do that because of the agency He has given us.



Heavenly Father and His Beloved Son love all of God’s children no matter what they choose to do or what they become. The Savior paid the price of all sins, no matter how heinous. Even though there must be justice, the opportunity for mercy is extended which will not rob justice.

President Henry B. Eyring
To My Grandchildren
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/to-my-grandchildren?lang=eng


What was my grandfather likening to a harness and bit? I believed then, as I believe now, that my grandfather was teaching me to follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost. In his mind’s eye, the harness and bit were spiritual. An obedient horse which is part of a well-trained team of horses needs little more than a gentle tug from the driver to do exactly what he wants it to do. This gentle tug is equivalent to the still, small voice with which the Lord speaks to us. Out of respect for our agency, it is never a strong, forceful tug.
Men and women who ignore the gentle promptings of the Spirit will often learn, as the prodigal son learned, through the natural consequences of disobedience and riotous living. It was only after natural consequences humbled the prodigal son that “he came to himself” and heard the whisperings of the Spirit telling him to return to his father’s house (see Luke 15:11–32).

Elder L. Tom Perry
Obedience through Our Faithfulness
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/obedience-through-our-faithfulness?lang=eng

Since knees often bend long before minds, holding back this “part” deprives God’s work of some of mankind’s very best intellects. Far better to be meek like Moses, who learned things he “never had supposed” (Moses 1:10). Yet, sadly, brothers and sisters, in the subtle interplay of agency and identity, there is so much hesitation. The surrender of the mind is actually a victory, because it then introduces us to God’s stretching and “higher” ways! (see Isa. 55:9).

Elder Neal A. Maxwell
Consecrate Thy Performance
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2002/04/consecrate-thy-performance?lang=eng

Agency is essential to the plan of happiness. It allows for the love, sacrifice, personal growth, and experience necessary for our eternal progression. This agency also allows for all the pain and suffering we experience in mortality, even when caused by things we do not understand and the devastating evil choices of others. The very War in Heaven was waged over our moral agency and is essential to understanding the Savior’s earthly ministry.

Elder Quentin L. Cook
Personal Peace: The Reward of Righteousness
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/personal-peace-the-reward-of-righteousness?lang=eng


Perhaps it is because we have a revealed knowledge of our premortal history. We recognize that when God the Eternal Father presented His plan to us at the beginning of time, Satan wanted to alter the plan. He said he would redeem all mankind. Not one soul would be lost, and Satan was confident he could deliver on his proposal. But there was an unacceptable cost--the destruction of man’s agency, which was and is a gift given by God (see Moses 4:1–3). About this gift, President Harold B. Lee said, “Next to life itself, free agency is God’s greatest gift to mankind.”3 Then it was no small thing for Satan to disregard man’s agency. In fact, it became the principal issue over which the War in Heaven was fought. Victory in the War in Heaven was a victory for man’s agency.

Elder L. Tom Perry
Obedience to Law Is Liberty
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/obedience-to-law-is-liberty?lang=eng

First, be not moved in choosing right. In these latter days, there are no small decisions. The choices you are making right now are of critical importance. Agency, or the ability to choose, is one of God’s greatest gifts to His children. It is part of the plan of happiness you and I chose and defended in our premortal existence. Live your lives in such a way that you can listen to and hear the Holy Ghost, and He will help you make correct decisions. In fact, He will tell you “all things what ye should do.”5
Elaine S. Dalton
Be Not Moved!
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/be-not-moved?lang=eng

A consecrated life respects the incomparable gift of one’s physical body, a divine creation in the very image of God. A central purpose of the mortal experience is that each spirit should receive such a body and learn to exercise moral agency in a tabernacle of flesh. A physical body is also essential for exaltation, which comes only in the perfect combination of the physical and the spiritual, as we see in our beloved, resurrected Lord. In this fallen world, some lives will be painfully brief; some bodies will be malformed, broken, or barely adequate to maintain life; yet life will be long enough for each spirit, and each body will qualify for resurrection.


D. Todd Christofferson
Reflections on a Consecrated Life
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/reflections-on-a-consecrated-life?lang=eng
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Pornography

       The topic of pornography is spoken of in general conference, my attention imeadietly is refocussed. The devil has saved his most lithal arrow for the last days. He is slipping in the arrow of pornography into almost every movie. How many Disney princesses are dressed modestly? I think that the rising generation of the chuch youth need constant reminders of what is modest and what is not. Having gone to church in BYU Provo I am asstounded at how much inmodesty there is. I guess we all need reminders. Modesty is normaly pointed towad the Women of the world but now, more then ever men also are earing tighter and more revieling clothes. All of this, in my opinion, desensitizes the world's cultures to almost seeing pornography as a common place thing. It just a glance. Its only a small part of the movie. We can fast forward it. My wife and I have decided its time to avoid evil at all costs. A 99% clean movie means that there is 1% of filth that you are letting enter your mind. It is there, FOREVER. I hope the compiled quotes will help you, as they have me reaffirm my standard on pornography.

There is also great concern about some of the pernicious, addictive behaviors like gambling and evil pornography that are so personally destructive and so rampant in our society. Remember, brothers and sisters, any kind of addiction is to surrender to something, thus relinquishing agency and becoming dependent. Thus, video-gaming and texting on cell phones need to be added to the list. Some gamers claim to spend up to 18 hours a day going through level after level of video games, neglecting all other aspects of their lives. Texting on cell phones can become an addiction, causing the important interpersonal human communication to become lost. Not long ago a bishop told me two of his youth were standing side by side texting one another rather than talking to each other.

M. Russel Ballard
O That Cunning Plan of the Evil One
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/o-that-cunning-plan-of-the-evil-one?lang=eng

We must be alert not to let sin grow around us. Forms of sin are everywhere--even, for example, in a computer or cell phone. These technologies are useful and can bring great benefits to us. But their inappropriate use--such as involvement in time-wasting games, programs that would drive you to carnal pleasure, or much worse things such as pornography--is destructive. Pornography destroys character and makes its user sink in the quicksand of filth, out of which the person can escape only with much help.

Jauro Mazzagardi
Avoiding the Trap of Sin
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/avoiding-the-trap-of-sin?lang=eng

May I express my personal warning about a practice that is common in many cultures. I am referring to sleepovers, or spending the night at the home of a friend. As a bishop I discovered that too many youth violated the Word of Wisdom or the law of chastity for the first time as part of a sleepover. Too often their first exposure to pornography and even their first encounter with the police occurred when they were spending the night away from home.

Larry R. Lawrence
Courageous Parenting
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/courageous-parenting?lang=eng

The Lord used the expression “is like unto” to create an image His followers could understand, such as:
“The kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man.”9
“The kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a field.”1
In our day the dreadful influence of pornography is like unto a plague sweeping across the world, infecting one here and one there, relentlessly trying to invade every home, most frequently through the husband and father. The effect of this plague can be, unfortunately often is, spiritually fatal. Lucifer seeks to disrupt “the great plan of redemption,”11 “the great plan of happiness.”12

President Boyd K. Packer
Cleansing the Inner Vessel
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/cleansing-the-inner-vessel?lang=eng

Our Heavenly Father has counseled us to seek after “anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy.” (A of F 1:13.) Whatever you read, listen to, or watch makes an impression on you.


Pornography is especially dangerous and addictive. Curious exploration of pornography can become a controlling habit, leading to coarser material and to sexual transgression.


Don’t be afraid to walk out of a movie, turn off a television set, or change a radio station if what’s being presented does not meet your Heavenly Father’s standards. In short, if you have any question about whether a particular movie, book, or other form of entertainment is appropriate, don’t see it, don’t read it, don’t participate.

President Thomas S. Monson
That We May Touch Heaven
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/10/that-we-may-touch-heaven?lang=eng

There is a better way, my brethren. Do you want to drop the ball in your lives? Do you wish to help Satan score? There is no surer way than to become engulfed in the tide of pornography that is sweeping over us. If we succumb to it, it destroys us, body and mind and soul.

President Thomas S. Monson
Don’t Drop the Ball
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1994/10/don-t-drop-the-ball?lang=eng

The Lord forbids and his church condemns any and every intimate relationship outside of marriage. Infidelity on the part of a man breaks the heart of his wife and loses her confidence and the confidence of his children (see Jacob 2:35).
Be faithful in your marriage covenants in thought, word, and deed. Pornography, flirtations, and unwholesome fantasies erode one’s character and strike at the foundation of a happy marriage. Unity and trust within a marriage are thereby destroyed. One who does not control his thoughts and thus commits adultery in his heart, if he does not repent, shall not have the Spirit, but shall deny the faith and shall fear (see D&C 42:23; D&C 63:16).

President Howard W. Hunter
Being a Righteous Husband and Father
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1994/10/being-a-righteous-husband-and-father?lang=eng

Another thing that may cause us to sleepwalk through this significant season of the world is addiction.
Addictions often begin subtly. Addictions are thin threads of repeated action that weave themselves into thick bonds of habit. Negative habits have the potential to become consuming addictions.
These binding chains of addiction can have many forms, like pornography, alcohol, sex, drugs, tobacco, gambling, food, work, the Internet, or virtual reality. Satan, our common enemy, has many favorite tools he uses to rob us of our divine potential to accomplish our mission in the Lord’s kingdom.
Are You Sleeping through the Restoration?

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/are-you-sleeping-through-the-restoration?lang=eng

I pray that we may be aware of the needs of those around us. There are some, particularly among the young, who are tragically involved in drugs, immorality, pornography, and so on. There are those who are lonely, including widows and widowers, who long for the company and concern of others. May we ever be ready to extend to them a helping hand and a loving heart.

President Thomas S. Monson
Until We Meet Again
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/until-we-meet-again?lang=eng

An ever-present danger to the family is the onslaught of evil forces that seem to come from every direction. While our primary effort must be to seek light and truth, we would be wise to black out from our homes the lethal bombs that destroy spiritual development and growth. Pornography, in particular, is a weapon of mass moral destruction. Its impact is at the forefront in eroding moral values. Some TV programs and Internet sites are equally lethal. These evil forces remove light and hope from the world. The level of decadence is accelerating.5 If we do not black out evil from our homes and lives, do not be surprised if devastating moral explosions shatter the peace which is the reward for righteous living. Our responsibility is to be in the world but not of the world.


Elder Quentin L. Cook
Let There Be Light!
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/let-there-be-light?lang=eng
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Physical Health

       Physical health in my mind is synonymous with the word of wisdom. I am energized by the example of the apostels who have kept their bodies in amazing physical health. We have control over how we will act in respect to our physical health. Just like our choices added equal who we are, our health choices added up equal our body. One insight that I gained from researching theses quotes was from Marrion G. Romney. He said "priesthood bearers who have entered into the covenants that we enter into--in the waters of baptism, in connection with the law of tithing, the Word of Wisdom, and the many other covenants we make--and then refuse to live up to these covenants will stand in jeopardy of losing the promise of eternal life." WOW so me keeping the word of wisdom is super important. Not just the obvious things like no drugs or alcohol, but excersise is part of the at too. I am excited to start keeping the word of wisdom more fully and start exercising.  



Families need to observe the Word of Wisdom in all ways, never compromising the dos and don’ts of this sacred commandment.
Happiness Is Homemade
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/10/happiness-is-homemade?lang=eng
The Apostle Paul declared, “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … The temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” (1 Cor. 3:16–17.) Use good eating habits, avoiding fad diets and ignoring the often alluring advertisements which emphasize slimness as the ultimate objective. Hard drugs, wrongful use of prescription drugs, alcohol, coffee, tea, and tobacco products destroy your physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Any form of alcohol, including beer, is harmful to your spirit and your body. Tobacco can enslave you, weaken your lungs, and shorten your life.
An example of tobacco’s powerful hold is illustrated in a letter which was written by a mother to the popular columnist and human relations adviser Ann Landers
“Dear Ann Landers:
“A year ago our two-year-old son, Earl, had difficulty breathing, so we took him to a doctor. We learned Earl is allergic to cigarette smoke. My husband said we both had to quit smoking right then and there. He hasn’t touched a cigarette since. I went back to smoking that same night.
“My husband doesn’t know I smoke. I have to sneak around and smoke in the basement, and it is making a nervous wreck out of me. Do you think it would be wrong if we let a nice couple adopt little Earl--a nice couple who don’t smoke? The only problem is that my husband is crazy about the boy. I love him too, but I am more the practical type. What do you think, Ann?
“/s/ Mrs. E. R. M.
“Dear Mrs. E. R. M.:
“I think a lot of people who read this letter are going to say I made it up. It’s utterly fantastic that a mother would put cigarettes ahead of her own child. Don’t present your wild idea to your husband. I wouldn’t blame him if he decided to keep little Earl and unload you!”

President Thomas S. Monson
The Lighthouse of the Lord
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/10/the-lighthouse-of-the-lord?lang=eng

Obedience allows God’s blessings to flow without constraint. He will bless His obedient children with freedom from bondage and misery. And He will bless them with more light. For example, one keeps the Word of Wisdom knowing that obedience will not only bring freedom from addiction, but it will also add blessings of wisdom and treasures of knowledge.5

Elder Russel M. Nelson
Face the Future with Faith
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/face-the-future-with-faith?lang=eng

As we understand the challenge of repenting, we appreciate the blessings of the Holy Ghost to guide our agency and Heavenly Father, who gives us commandments and strengthens and sustains us in keeping them. We also understand how obedience to the commandments ultimately protects our agency.
For example, when we hearken to the Word of Wisdom, we escape the captivity of poor health and addiction to substances that literally rob us of our ability to act for ourselves.

Elder Robert D. Hales
Agency: Essential to the Plan of Life
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/agency-essential-to-the-plan-of-life?lang=eng

As I was running I began to notice something that, frankly, troubled me. Time and again I was being passed by men who smoked, drank, and did all manner of things that were contrary to the gospel and, in particular, to the Word of Wisdom.
I remember thinking, “Wait a minute! Aren’t I supposed to be able to run and not be weary?” But I was weary, and I was overtaken by people who were definitely not following the Word of Wisdom. I confess, it troubled me at the time. I asked myself, was the promise true or was it not?
The answer didn’t come immediately. But eventually I learned that God’s promises are not always fulfilled as quickly as or in the way we might hope; they come according to His timing and in His ways. Years later I could see clear evidence of the temporal blessings that come to those who obey the Word of Wisdom--in addition to the spiritual blessings that come immediately from obedience to any of God’s laws. Looking back, I know for sure that the promises of the Lord, if perhaps not always swift, are always certain.

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Continue in Patience
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/continue-in-patience?lang=eng

I learned that you should always take care of your body. Take nothing into your body that will harm it, such as we are counseled in the Word of Wisdom: tea, coffee, liquor, tobacco, or anything else that is habit-forming, addictive, or harmful.

President Boyd K. Packer
Counsel to Young Men
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/04/counsel-to-young-men?lang=eng

“And I, the Lord, give unto them a promise, that the destroying angel shall pass by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them” (vv. 18–21).
There is no better counsel concerning the Word of Wisdom than that found in the booklet For the Strength of Youth. It states:
“The Lord has commanded you to take good care of your body. To do this, observe the Word of Wisdom, found in Doctrine and Covenants 89. Eat nutritious food, exercise regularly, and get enough sleep. When you do all these things, you remain free from harmful addictions and have control over your life. You gain the blessings of a healthy body, an alert mind, and the guidance of the Holy Ghost. …
“Any drug, chemical, or dangerous practice that is used to produce a sensation or ‘high’ can destroy your physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. These include hard drugs, prescription or over-the-counter medications that are abused, and household chemicals” ([2001], 36–37).
We do not want to harm our mortal bodies, for they are a gift from God, and part of our Heavenly Father’s great plan of happiness is the reuniting of our immortal bodies with our spirits.

Elder L. Tom Perry
Let Him Do It with Simplicity
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/let-him-do-it-with-simplicity?lang=eng

Prophets are inspired to provide us with prophetic priorities to protect us from dangers. As an example, President Heber J. Grant, the prophet from 1918 to 1945, was inspired to emphasize adherence to the Word of Wisdom,10 the principle with a promise revealed by the Lord to the Prophet Joseph.11 He stressed the importance of not smoking or drinking alcoholic beverages and directed the bishops to review these principles in temple recommend interviews.
At that time smoking was accepted by society as an appropriate, even glamorous, behavior. The medical profession accepted smoking with little concern because the scientific studies linking cigarette smoking with several kinds of cancer were far in the future. President Grant counseled with great vigor, and we became known as a people who abstained from drinking and smoking.
Starting in the late 1960s, illegal drug use reached epidemic proportions throughout the world. While there were some members who rebelled, the vast majority of LDS youth were able to avoid the devastating use of drugs.
Obeying the Word of Wisdom gave our members, especially our youth, a preventive inoculation against drug use and the resulting health problems and moral hazards. Unfortunately, there appears to be a resurgence of drug use in our own day. Living the Word of Wisdom today will free you from some of the most serious dangers you can face in this life.

Elder Quentin L. Cook
Give Heed unto the Prophets’ Words
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/04/give-heed-unto-the-prophets-words?lang=eng

In 1908 in a general conference, President Joseph F. Smith read section 89 of the Doctrine and Covenants--the Word of Wisdom. Then he, both of his counselors, and the President of the Twelve all spoke to the same subject, the Word of Wisdom. Then a vote to accept it as binding upon the members of the Church was unanimously passed.
That revelation begins, “In consequence of evils and designs which do and will exist in the hearts of conspiring men in the last days, I have warned you, and forewarn you, by giving unto you this word of wisdom by revelation” (D&C 89:4).
It is a shield and a protection unto our people, particularly to our youth. It becomes a part of that “whole armor” of God promised in the revelations to protect them from the “fiery darts” of the adversary (see D&C 27:15–18).

President Boyd K. Packer
The Spirit of the Tabernacle
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/the-spirit-of-the-tabernacle?lang=eng

Now, I do not think this means that all who fail to magnify their callings in the priesthood will have committed the unpardonable sin, but I do think that priesthood bearers who have entered into the covenants that we enter into--in the waters of baptism, in connection with the law of tithing, the Word of Wisdom, and the many other covenants we make--and then refuse to live up to these covenants will stand in jeopardy of losing the promise of eternal life.

Elder Marion G. Romney
The Covenant of the Priesthood
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1972/04/the-covenant-of-the-priesthood?lang=eng

Is observance of the Word of Wisdom necessary? The Brethren have long felt that it certainly must be. Observance of the Word of Wisdom is concerned with the care of one’s body, which, the Lord has assured, is of itself a temple, a tabernacle of the spirit. He has said, “Yea, man is the tabernacle of God, even temples; and whatsoever temple is defiled, God shall destroy that temple.” (D&C 93:35.)

President Gordon B. Hinkley
Keeping the Temple Holy
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/04/keeping-the-temple-holy?lang=eng

Families need to observe the Word of Wisdom in all ways, never compromising the dos and don’ts of this sacred commandment.

LeGrand R. Curtis
Happiness Is Homemade
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/10/happiness-is-homemade?lang=eng
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Mental Health and Depression

       When it comes to mental health, I can not say that I have ever had a sevier case of depression. Some medium dives into the slumms of sadness but nothing to large. Like the first quote  I have listed below says, all I had to do was focus back to the fact that god wants me to be happy! After all it is some times called the plan of happiness. I can also empathize with those who have or have had seviour depression. I have seen its effects in the lives of friends and family memebers. Someetimes those types of depression, can not be fully remedies with the standard mormon answers. Mental illness or sickness is a problem with the pyisical brain structure. Spiritual sickness is a problem with a mall nurished or mal treated spirit. It is truly hard to diagnose which is which with people but I believe they are different. Some damage to a spirit can be so deep or so bad it takes year to mend its effects and the scar often remains as a daily reminder. Through the atonement all can be made free to experience joy in this life.
These quptes may be helpful for a friend you know. Copy and post them to a Social media site to share the good word. 

I do not wish to minimize the reality of clinical depression. For some, solutions to depression and anxieties will be found through consultation with competent professionals. But for most of us, sadness and fear begin to melt away and are replaced by happiness and peace when we put our trust in the Author of the plan of happiness and when we develop faith in the Prince of Peace.

Wilford W. Andersen
The Rock of Our Redeemer
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/the-rock-of-our-redeemer?lang=eng

I speak to you who find yourselves caught in a pattern of life that you neither enjoy nor want. You may publicly profess that all is well and reject the efforts of others to help you with a comment that you know what you are doing and can handle it yourself. Yet, in quiet moments, you know you are miserable, lonely, and sometimes afraid. You avoid thinking too much about what you are doing. The walls seem to close in around you. You are driven by appetites that bring momentary physical response but are followed by periods of deep depression. Let me help you as we reason together.
I need not define your specific problem to help you overcome it. It doesn’t matter what it is. If it violates the commandments of the Lord, it comes from Satan, and the Lord can overcome all of Satan’s influence through your application of righteous principles.

Elder Richard G. Scott
Finding the Way Back
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1990/04/finding-the-way-back?lang=eng

Brethren, you have noticed that I am not discussing the effects of pornography on mental health or criminal behavior. I am discussing its effects on spirituality--on our ability to have the companionship of the Spirit of the Lord and our capacity to exercise the power of the priesthood



Elder Dallin H. Oaks
Pornography
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2005/04/pornography?lang=eng

The challenges we face today are in their own way comparable to challenges of the past. The recent economic crisis has caused significant concern throughout the world. Employment and financial problems are not unusual. Many people have physical and mental health challenges. Others deal with marital problems or wayward children. Some have lost loved ones. Addictions and inappropriate or harmful propensities cause heartache. Whatever the source of the trials, they cause significant pain and suffering for individuals and those who love them.

Elder Quentin L. Cook
“Hope Ya Know, We Had a Hard Time”
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/hope-ya-know-we-had-a-hard-time?lang=eng

So how do you best respond when mental or emotional challenges confront you or those you love? Above all, never lose faith in your Father in Heaven, who loves you more than you can comprehend. As President Monson said to the Relief Society sisters so movingly last Saturday evening: “That love never changes. … It is there for you when you are sad or happy, discouraged or hopeful. God’s love is there for you whether or not you feel you deserve [it]. It is simply always there.”4 Never, ever doubt that, and never harden your heart. Faithfully pursue the time-tested devotional practices that bring the Spirit of the Lord into your life. Seek the counsel of those who hold keys for your spiritual well-being. Ask for and cherish priesthood blessings. Take the sacrament every week, and hold fast to the perfecting promises of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Believe in miracles. I have seen so many of them come when every other indication would say that hope was lost. Hope is never lost. If those miracles do not come soon or fully or seemingly at all, remember the Savior’s own anguished example: if the bitter cup does not pass, drink it and be strong, trusting in happier days ahead.5

Elder Jeffery R. Holland
Like a Broken Vessel
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/like-a-broken-vessel?lang=eng

Mary continues: “One Sunday evening I was taking a walk with my friend. … I was reminded of [my husband’s] absence and my intense loneliness, and as I wept bitterly I could see, as it were in mental vision, the steep hill of life I should have to climb and felt the reality of it with great force. A deep depression settled upon me, for the enemy knows when to attack us, but our [Savior, Jesus Christ,] is mighty to save. Through … the help given of the Father, I was able to battle with all the force which seemed to be arrayed against me at this time.”8
Mary learned at the tender age of 19 that the Atonement gives us the assurance that all things that are unfair in this life can and will be made right--even the deepest sorrows.

Linda K. Burton
Is Faith in the Atonement of Jesus Christ Written in Our Hearts?
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/is-faith-in-the-atonement-of-jesus-christ-written-in-our-hearts?lang=eng

Those who live the celestial principles found in the scriptures give comfort to those who suffer. They bring joy to those who are depressed, direction to those who are lost, peace to those who are distressed, and a sure guidance to those who seek the truth.

Elder Enrique R. Falabella
The Home: The School of Life
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/the-home-the-school-of-life?lang=eng


We live in the perilous times prophesied by the Apostle Paul (see 2 Timothy 3:1). Those who try to walk the straight and narrow path see inviting detours on every hand. We can be distracted, degraded, downhearted, or depressed. How can we have the Spirit of the Lord to guide our choices and keep us on the path?
In modern revelation the Lord gave the answer in this commandment:
“And that thou mayest more fully keep thyself unspotted from the world, thou shalt go to the house of prayer and offer up thy sacraments upon my holy day;
“For verily this is a day appointed unto you to rest from your labors, and to pay thy devotions unto the Most High” (D&C 59:9–10).
This is a commandment with a promise. By participating weekly and appropriately in the ordinance of the sacrament we qualify for the promise that we will “always have his Spirit to be with [us]” (D&C 20:77). That Spirit is the foundation of our testimony. It testifies of the Father and the Son, brings all things to our remembrance, and leads us into truth. It is the compass to guide us on our path. This gift of the Holy Ghost, President Wilford Woodruff taught, “is the greatest gift that can be bestowed upon man” (Deseret Weekly, Apr. 6, 1889, 451).
Elder Dallin H. Oaks
Sacrament Meeting and the Sacrament
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/sacrament-meeting-and-the-sacrament?lang=eng

Some, because they lack faith or understanding of the eternal plan, become bitter and lose hope. One such was a 19th-century writer who achieved both success and wealth with his dazzling wit and writing style. His wife came from a religious family, and he wanted to have faith in God but wasn’t really sure God existed. Then he was hit by a series of crushing blows. In 1893 a national financial crisis left him deeply in debt. His oldest daughter died while he was on a speaking tour. His wife’s health failed, and she died in 1904. His youngest daughter died in 1909. His own health declined. His writing, which had formerly been so full of sparkle, now reflected his bitterness. He became progressively depressed, cynical, and disillusioned and remained so until his death in 1910. With all his brilliance, he lacked the inner strength to deal with adversity and simply resigned himself to his misfortunes.

Elder James E. Faust
Where Do I Make My Stand?
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2004/10/where-do-i-make-my-stand?lang=eng

We may think that women are more likely than men to have feelings of inadequacy and disappointment--that these feelings affect them more than us. I’m not sure that this is true. Men experience feelings of guilt, depression, and failure. We might pretend these feelings don’t bother us, but they do. We can feel so burdened by our failures and shortcomings that we begin to think we will never be able to succeed. We might even assume that because we have fallen before, falling is our destiny. As one writer put it, “We beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”1


Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf
You Can Do It Now!
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/you-can-do-it-now?lang=eng



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Judging Others

       Judging others has always been a weakness of mine. I have a very critical mind and can see imperfections very easily. The problem is that I see imperfections in other people very easily as well and often times I've voiced those thoughts to others. This is called judging others with an unrighteous judgment. There is a fine line between when it is okay to make a judgment about some buddy and when you are on righteously judging a person. In management in the corporate world you have to make judgment calls about people. Sometimes even have to talk about those people in a group setting. What I have seen from those that I look up to is that they speak the best that they know about each individual. But at the end of what they share they also include their honest opinion of whether not he or she is able to take the task at hand or be assigned to a certain position. I think the best way to learn how to be a righteous judge is to surround yourself with people that judge righteously. I hope you enjoy the following quotes as I have enjoyed learning from them and what is right when it comes to judging others.


I imagine that every person on earth has been affected in some way by the destructive spirit of contention, resentment, and revenge. Perhaps there are even times when we recognize this spirit in ourselves. When we feel hurt, angry, or envious, it is quite easy to judge other people, often assigning dark motives to their actions in order to justify our own feelings of resentment.

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
The Merciful Obtain Mercy
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/04/the-merciful-obtain-mercy?lang=eng

We live in a world in which many situations require us to make judgments that are often difficult. Yet the Savior gave the commandment to “judge not” our fellowman.1 How can we do this and still exercise good judgment in a world full of deception and corruption? We must judge well when making critical decisions in each phase of our life, such as choosing friends, finding an eternal companion, or choosing an occupation that will allow us to care for our family and serve the Lord. Although the Savior asked us not to judge others, He still expects us to use excellent judgment.
We may often find ourselves making quick judgments about people, which can change or redefine our relationships with them. Often incorrect judgments are made because of limited information or because we do not see beyond that which is immediately in front of us.

Gregory A. Schwitzer
Developing Good Judgment and Not Judging Others
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/developing-good-judgment-and-not-judging-others?lang=eng

We as women can be particularly hard on ourselves. When we compare ourselves to one another, we will always feel inadequate or resentful of others. Sister Patricia T. Holland once said, “The point is, we simply cannot call ourselves Christian and continue to judge one another--or ourselves--so harshly.”3 She goes on to say that there is nothing that is worth us losing our compassion and sisterhood over. We just need to relax and rejoice in our divine differences. We need to realize that we all desire to serve in the kingdom, using our unique talents and gifts in our own ways. Then we can enjoy our sisterhood and our associations and begin to serve.

Bonnie L. Oscarson
Sisterhood: Oh, How We Need Each Other
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/sisterhood-oh-how-we-need-each-other?lang=eng

All are born with the Light of Christ, a guiding influence which permits each person to recognize right from wrong. What we do with that light and how we respond to those promptings to live righteously is part of the test of mortality.
“For behold, the Spirit of Christ is given to every man, that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God.”8

President Boyd K. Packer
These Things I Know
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/04/these-things-i-know?lang=eng

Ponder the direct message from an Apostle of Jesus Christ. Elder M. Russell Ballard has counseled us not to judge others. We were reminded that each of us has the privilege to carefully and prayerfully seek the Lord’s will, just for us, regarding life’s challenges. Further, he reminded us that this is God’s plan and it is not our prerogative to alter or tamper with it.

Elaine L. Jack
“Ponder the Path of Thy Feet”
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1993/10/ponder-the-path-of-thy-feet?lang=eng

We need to recognize the hard mortal realities in all of this and must use common sense and guidance by personal revelation. Some will not marry in this life. Some marriages will fail. Some will not have children. Some children will choose not to respond to even the most devoted and careful nurturing by loving parents. In some cases, health and faith may falter. Some who would rather remain at home may have to work. Let us not judge others, because we do not know their situation nor do we know what common sense and personal revelation have led them to do. We do know that throughout mortality, women and men will face challenges and tests of their commitment to God’s plan for them. We need to remember that trials and temptations are an important part of our lives. We should not criticize others for the way they choose to exercise their moral agency when faced with adversity or affliction.

Elder M. Russel Ballard
Equality through Diversity
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1993/10/equality-through-diversity?lang=eng

A third area of distraction that can destroy joy is comparing our talents and blessings with others. The growth in our own talents is the best measure of personal progress. In recent years the concept of “personal best” has become widely accepted. This has great merit. Remember we usually judge others at their best and ourselves at our worst. In the parable of the talents, the servants who received five talents and two talents were praised by the Lord for increasing their talents and told to “enter thou into the joy of thy lord.” The servant who was rebuked was the servant who buried the talent given him. (See Matt. 25:14–30.) Comparing blessings is almost certain to drive out joy. We cannot be grateful and envious at the same time. If we truly want to have the Spirit of the Lord and experience joy and happiness, we should rejoice in our blessings and be grateful. We should especially rejoice in the blessings that are available through the temple.

Elder Quentin L. Cook
Rejoice!
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1996/10/rejoice?lang=eng

That leads to another principle of unity. It is to speak well of each other. Think of the last time you were asked what you thought about how someone else was doing in your family or in the Church. It happened to me more than once in the past week. Now, there are times we must judge others. Sometimes we are required to pronounce such judgments. But more often we can make a choice. For instance, suppose someone asks you what you think of the new bishop.
As we get better and better at forging unity, we will think of a scripture when we hear that question: “And now, my brethren, seeing that ye know the light by which ye may judge, which light is the light of Christ, see that ye do not judge wrongfully; for with that same judgment which ye judge ye shall also be judged.”4
Realizing that you see others in an imperfect light will make you likely to be a little more generous in what you say. In addition to that scripture, you might remember your mother saying--mine did--“If you can’t say anything good about a person, don’t say anything at all.”

President Henry B. Eyring
Our Hearts Knit as One
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/our-hearts-knit-as-one?lang=eng

It needs to be taught and understood that we love and respect all of the people whom Lehi described.8 Remember, it is not up to us to judge. Judgment is the Lord’s.9 President Thomas S. Monson has specifically asked us to have the “courage to refrain from judging others.”10 He has also asked every faithful member to rescue those who have tasted of the gospel fruit and then have fallen away, as well as those who have not yet found the strait and narrow path. We pray that they will hold to the rod and partake of the love of God, which will fill their “soul[s] with exceedingly great joy.”11
Elder Quentin L. Cook
In Tune with the Music of Faith
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/04/in-tune-with-the-music-of-faith?lang=eng

My earnest prayer is that you will have the courage required to refrain from judging others, the courage to be chaste and virtuous, and the courage to stand firm for truth and righteousness. As you do so, you will be “an example of the believers,”21 and your life will be filled with love and peace and joy. May this be so, my beloved young sisters, I ask in the name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, amen.

President Thomas S. Monson
May You Have Courage
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/04/may-you-have-courage?lang=eng



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Forgiving others

       Forgiving our neighbour his tresspasses is such a simple, yet sometimes such a hard thing to do. By compiling these quotes I was reminded of the importance of forgetting and where I need to improve. I tend to get along with everybody very well. It's not that hard for me to shrug things off and let things slide. I think that forgiving is more than just letting things slide. Forgiving is truly acknowledging what has been done to you or around you and making a conscious decision to forgive the other person. In today's society I don't believe that the word forgive is used like it was in the past. I know that I seldom use the word and I need to repent of this sin. It is so easy for our pride to get in the way of us saying will you forgive me. I think that for guys it's almost impossible phrase to compile. I hope the following quotes will wake you up to the reality in the society that forgiveness is in our lives and our path back to heavenly father



Acts of Christian service should be part of our everyday agenda. In the book of Acts, chapter 10, verse 38, it is said of Jesus that He “went about doing good.” [Acts 10:38] Jesus taught us how to do good: love our neighbors, forgive others, care for the poor, the needy, the afflicted, the lonely. It is inspiring to see that the Lord has organized His church to also do these same things--to care for the needs of others through various assignments.


One: We must continue to repent for the rest of our lives because we will still make mistakes, and we must go home clean or we can’t dwell with the Father and the Son (see D&C 84:74).
Two: We must continue to forgive others. If we do not forgive others, we cannot obtain forgiveness ourselves (see D&C 64:9–10). And three: Yes, we must be nice. If we’re not nice, I don’t think we’re going to make it. In other words, we must have charity, which is really love plus sacrifice. We must serve our fellowmen, women, and children, and if we do all else but we do not serve the poor, the needy, the downtrodden, the oppressed, the sick and afflicted, both temporally and spiritually, according to their wants, we cannot retain a remission of our sins from day to day. Without serving others, we cannot “walk guiltless before God” (Mosiah 4:26).


The spirit must be freed from tethers so strong and feelings never put to rest, so that the lift of life may give buoyancy to the soul. In many families, there are hurt feelings and a reluctance to forgive. It doesn’t really matter what the issue was. It cannot and should not be left to injure. Blame keeps wounds open. Only forgiveness heals. George Herbert, an early 17th-century poet, wrote these lines: “He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven, for everyone has need of forgiveness.”


Obedience to all the commandments. Full obedience brings the complete power of the gospel into your life with strength to focus on the abandonment of specific sins. It includes things you might not initially consider part of repentance, such as attending meetings, paying tithing, giving service, and forgiving others. The Lord said: “He that repents and does the commandments of the Lord shall be forgiven.”13


There are those among us who torture themselves through their inability to show mercy and to forgive others some supposed offense or slight, however small it may be. At times the statement is made, “I never can forgive [this person or that person].” Such an attitude is destructive to an individual’s well-being. It can canker the soul and ruin one’s life. In other instances, an individual can forgive another but cannot forgive himself. Such a situation is even more destructive.



When needed, full repentance will require action on your part. If you are not familiar with the classic steps to repentance, such as confession and abandonment of sin, restitution, obedience, and seeking forgiveness, talk to a bishop or study a source such as President Spencer W. Kimball’s masterly work The Miracle of Forgiveness. In addition to fulfilling those requirements, the return of your peace of conscience will be hastened by careful attention to another step that is sometimes not recognized. The Savior has made it clear that to receive forgiveness you must forgive others their offenses against you.
“I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men.
President Thomas S. Monson

Will everything be fair? It will not. We will accept some things we cannot fix and forgive others when it hurts.
Will we feel separated on occasion from those around us? Absolutely.


When hard trials come, the faith to endure them well will be there, built as you may now notice but may have not at the time that you acted on the pure love of Christ, serving and forgiving others as the Savior would have done. You built a foundation of faith from loving as the Savior loved and serving for Him. Your faith in Him led to acts of charity that will bring you hope.


Of course, we know this is wrong. The doctrine is clear. We all depend on the Savior; none of us can be saved without Him. Christ’s Atonement is infinite and eternal. Forgiveness for our sins comes with conditions. We must repent, and we must be willing to forgive others. Jesus taught: “Forgive one another; for he that forgiveth not … [stands] condemned before the Lord; for there remaineth in him the greater sin”3 and “Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.”4

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
The Merciful Obtain Mercy
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/04/the-merciful-obtain-mercy?lang=eng


A Christian believes that through the grace of God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, we can repent, forgive others, keep the commandments, and inherit eternal life.
The word Christian denotes taking upon us the name of Christ. We do this by being baptized and receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost by the laying on of hands by those holding His priesthood authority.

Elder Robert D. Hales
Being a More Christian Christian
http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/being-a-more-christian-christian?lang=eng



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88 Quotes

For my online institute class, I chose to bake a blog for our last assignment. This is that wonderful blog.

I will post on a total of 8 different topics with around 10 quotes each, totaling around 88 quotes.
My hope is that one of these quotes will stick out to you, and help you in your life.

Happy blogging.

Bweiss
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